7 ways to make your small wedding more intimate

Small weddings can still be big. In fact, intimate weddings are no less special than bigger ones.

Intimate weddings are on the rise because of the ongoing pandemic and their popularity only proves that nothing can stand in the way of celebrating love.

But how do you prepare an intimate wedding that will be remembered forever? Here are 7 tips: 

#1: Include more people in the ceremony 

If you have a limited guest list, consider assigning  roles so all your guests  can participate directly in the ceremony. For instance, you can ask one of your closest friends to read a line at the ceremony, or have all your guests surround you while you exchange your vows. 

Also, take the time to dine and chat with your guests after the ceremony, too. This will make your guests feel like their presence is appreciated and that your wedding would not be the same without them.

For guests who have not been invited to the ceremony, consider sending a personalized wedding announcement to inform them of your upcoming union. Better yet, consider streaming your wedding so that guests who can’t  attend the ceremony in person can still join virtually. And for a special touch,  send wedding favors to the virtual guests so they can join in the wedding festivities.

#2: Make a creative seating plan

Take inspiration from your living room or your favorite cafe when designing the seating at your wedding. Spread out the chairs and think of a design you can easily reassemble, say, for an afterparty or cocktail night. Not only will your guests feel cozy, but they will also have more chances of interacting with each other meaningfully. 

#3: Personalize everything

With a short guest list, it is possible to personalize almost everything you’ll use in the wedding. Handwritten invitations and escort cards have a very personal and heartwarming feel to them. The wedding decorations, food, and the music at the wedding should reflect you and your partner’s taste. In fact, you can tell your love story through your choice of music and food. Keeping your wedding intimate frees up a bulk of your time and budget, so you can indulge in the details.

#4: Choose a memorable venue

Speaking of details, your wedding venue is one of the most important elements that affect the look and feel of your special day. Though small weddings are usually set in remote destinations, recent travel restrictions have kept weddings domestic. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t be creative. Choose a local spot that marks a milestone in you and your partner’s relationship, like the restaurant where you had your first date. If not, you can always have a home wedding, book a pretty and comfy Airbnb, or get married at city hall. Any of these options can work as long as it’s relevant to your wedding theme and your story.

#5: Show off your fashion sense

Another good way to tell a story is through fashion. The traditional white wedding theme is used in America, but it takes a lot of inventiveness and effort to stand out if you choose a theme that has been around for ages. Brides can consider using short wedding dresses, or getting a dress in their favorite color. Grooms can also be experimental in their choice of fabric, cut, and color. Having a small guest list gives you  license to take some fun risks with your wedding clothes.

#6: Give unforgettable gifts

A welcome gift for all your guests won’t be extravagant if you’re hosting a small wedding. So, go on and put items that you and your partner love. Consider adding your favorite wine or snacks. You can also incorporate items from the locale. If your wedding is happening on the beach, you can include a beach-ready kit. If the wedding is not in the neighborhood, consider adding a map and city guide. Plus, you can even put an itinerary or activity list so guests can fully enjoy their stay. Consider eco-friendly packaging, like simple brown paper bags or reusable canvas tote bags. 

#7: Plan fun activities for your guests

Since you’ll only be inviting your friends and family, ensure that your guests have a wonderful time by planning activities. Number one should be taking creative wedding photos with all the guests. After the ceremony, you can offer the microphone to anybody who would like to share a message, poem, or song for you and your groom or bride. Get your guests comfortable and active by initiating small group games, too. Whether your wedding venue is a campsite, beach resort, or house, there are bound to be activities that you and your guests can enjoy and bond over.

Final thoughts 

There are many ways to make your micro wedding fun and inclusive and at Married Livestream we’re focused on making it as inclusive as possible.

Instead of worrying about your guest list and who can/can’t come, you have the peace of mind knowing that everyone will be included and nobody will miss a thing.

We want to help make your planning process a breeze. Click the button below to talk with someone on our team about how we can make your wedding amazing!